Here’s what not to do. If you ever want to get a book published, do not write to the publisher or agent who rejected your book and ask why. Do not post the rejection letter either. If you do that, you should simultaneously take advantage of a job opening at Dunkin Donuts.
It’s advisable not to check up on the ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. Just assume they’re happier than you. Do you really want to know all the details? モトカレやモトカノが今はどうしているかなんて、チェックしないほうがいい。
Do not confront friends in real life about information you’ve gleaned from reading their ‘wall’ on Facebook. For instance, you’ve discovered a friend was in town and didn’t call you but got together with a mutual friend. People lie – live with it. SNSで得た情報を現実社会に持ち込んで、友達につめよらないほうがいい。友達が実は自分の町に来ていて、自分には連絡をくれなくて、他の共通の友達とだけ会っていたことを見つけることだってある。
Everything on Facebook is accelerated. Friendships are established, invitations are accepted, and opportunities are created. But also, relationships are destroyed, dreams are crushed, possibilities unravel and hopes can die. It could go either way. SNSは友達を作ることもできるけれど、人間関係を壊すこともする。機会が得られることもあれば、夢が潰えることもある。