Hi there, you can use Japanese or English, it doesn't matter. I think everyone in hear likes Japanese and English.
I married my Japanese wife in NZ, and I wore a Hakama and my wife wore a dress so we were kind of unusual. Some of my Japanese friends wore a Kimono so I was really happy and all my kiwi friends thought it was great so I think you should wear a kimono if you have the chance.
hello, thank you for returning message.
this time I am going write in English HEHEHE
Well, it sounds very nice to wear KIMONO on her wedding, isn't it? I think I will wear that. That would be fun.
Also, do you have any idea where to visit in NZ. We are thinking about going there late NOV to early DEC both NORTH and SOUTH for a week maximum. If you have any idea please let me know. I know there are so many places I want to visit, but we are a party of 6 peaople including 6month old baby(by the time we go) and 75 years old my daddy, so I don't want do very busy vacation.