ペイパルのresolution centreへ行き、report a problemに行って、それから順に辿って購入したアイテムをクレームします。セラーが合意してからなのかはわかりませんが、ペイパルが返金してくれます。私の場合は難航していた交渉もペイパルにクレームを送ったらすぐに返金してもらえたので、ペイパルがセラーと交渉中に返金してくれるのかもしれませんね。ちょっとクレジットカード会社のような感じがもしれません。
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We use a third party shipper. They charge us $1.00 per item over the actual USPS charge for parcel post, medial mail when available. Their charges also include delivery confirmation.
ぼくもそのthird party shipperというのが気になっていました。
ただ、USPSの配送料より$1高く取る分、配送確認もきちんとしているとあったので、なにかあった場合すぐに対応できるよという意味だと思っていましたが実は結構いいかげんなものなんですね。
しかし!今日セラーからやっと連絡がきました!
I could not figure this out --but today it is clear your parcel was returned
to us today---I am glad to tell you this it was listed as unclaimed--please
get back to me as soon as possible
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What is your mailing address I want to make sure that is is correct if so
you will have to pay the shipping again and this time I will make sure I
have delivery confirmation number for you--I have had my mother looking for
the other confirmation and could not find it --but the good news is at least
they sent it back to us.