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time hells all wounds....!!!
but i don't even have the sense where is the start for that?
so how shall I continue??

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You start by getting out of bed, getting dressed and
keeping yourself busy. Go on a holiday if that helps,
buy yourself something you've always wanted.

[2] mixiユーザー 01月30日 09:22

It has already started! Time heals all wounds, and time never stops.
So, healing is in progress even as you were typing. rajioさん says
it well--keep busy! At the same time, if there is an issue that
needs addressing, don't just escape into busyness; attack it head-on,
and move on.

Good luck to you

[3] mixiユーザー 01月30日 09:27

sorry...it should be heals....always messed up with hells..
type mistakes..haha

[4] mixiユーザー 01月30日 09:37

I am sure you have a lot of things to do.
How about doing them just one after another ?

[5] mixiユーザー 01月30日 09:39

My philosophy for life:

always do what's next.

[8] mixiユーザー 01月30日 09:57

"The trick is to keep breathing".

For me it was important to do the things that I had already planned to do. By still doing them, I wasn't missing out on so much.

[10] mixiユーザー 01月30日 10:41

Cry, scream, grieve then move on, do the things you need to do even if you don't want to. Take care of yourself and you will heal. If you are really hurt get help from friends, relatives and/or professionals. I wish you the best.

[11] mixiユーザー 01月30日 10:43

Nothing in life is perfect. The trick is to focus on all the things in your life that are going well. Its an easy thing to forget, because our desires are so strong.

Kinda sounds like you got dumped. Sucks, I know, but you gotta realize, in the end, its better to have it happen now than much later down the road.

Also, something my mother always said to me: You woke up this morning. You got out of bed with your own two feet, saw the sunlight with your own eyes. There are plenty of people in this world who can't even do that, and yet they keep smiling. So, why can't you?

[12] mixiユーザー 01月30日 10:50

Keep yourself busy.

Always have something to do. Go for coffee with friends, go do something touristy..whatever else. Anything that keeps you occupied and doesn't enable you to think about painful things.

[14] mixiユーザー 01月30日 12:34

Doesn't matter, if you want to forget, then keep busy.

Having strong social support will help all of those problems, including being stuck to a bed. Even if you are injured, you can heal faster by having good friends/family to make you feel happy, which causes you to release less cortisol (which suppresses your immune system).

Good friends are the most important thing.

[17] mixiユーザー 01月30日 13:14

I think 瑠奈 is trying to say you should be sociable. She's just leading by example.

[20] mixiユーザー 01月30日 14:08

I've found that time doesn't heal
hatchet wounds all that well, though.

[22] mixiユーザー 01月30日 21:20

Seal Pool, you'll heal from a hatchet wound, you'll just have one hell of a scar. Might be pretty cool. Badge of honor and all that.

Same goes for all the hurts in life, whether physical or emotional. Daft Punk comes to mind, "Whatever don't kill me just makes me stronger."

[25] mixiユーザー 01月30日 23:59

> Daft Punk comes to mind, "Whatever don't kill me just makes me stronger."

So that's where Nietzsche got it from...

[26] mixiユーザー 01月31日 03:32

> They just want to help a damsel in distress and hopefully
> look good in front of other damsels at the same time
感じの悪い奴だな。　

　「psychological projection (or projection bias) is a defense mechanism
　　in which one attributes to others one’s own unacceptable or unwanted
　　thoughts or/and emotions.」

[27] mixiユーザー 01月31日 03:34

> So that's where Nietzsche got it from.
hee hee hee hee hee...

[28] mixiユーザー 01月31日 04:49

but how can force myself to keep doing the things I don't really feel
like to do???? if so,what's the point to stay living then???

[30] mixiユーザー 01月31日 07:36

29> as are you, リンさん。 nononono, not brain. brian.

[31] mixiユーザー 01月31日 07:58

hey...every one,I really didn't expect that so many pepole would like to drop their comment here,thanks so much,I just felt like to leave sth
here in the very beginning..

will try to reply when I have tomorrow..

ciao!

[32] mixiユーザー 01月31日 08:24

Mariposa:
> if so,what's the point to stay living then???

Don't ask that. People have been asking that for 3000 years without finding a good answer.

Instead, ask yourself things like, "what could I do right now that would be better than doing nothing?". Once you think of an answer, go do that.

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