Lovin' Englishコミュのほんとの彼とは？

こんにちは

突然ですが…みなさんがいいなと思ってる人の本質を見極める時どこに注意しますか

先日アプレでは絶対注意してみたほうがいい

のポイントについてレッスンが行われました！

あなたの見るポイントと比較してみては？？
これも必要だよ！とかあったら意見ください

1.Kids or no kids?
2.Smoking or no smoking
3.Drinking or no drinking? (Same for drugs)
4.Religious beliefs: Match? Blend? Clash
5.Who works? Who stays home (especially when the kids come along)?
6.Who wants to live where?
7.Who controls the checkbook?
8.What is his/her personal relationship with his/her family?
Too distant? Too close Too weird? Appropriate to your standards?
9.How are holidays spent? At home? With family? Alone? Vacationing
10.Windows opened or closed? Heat/AC on or off?
11.What side of the bed must you (he/she) sleep on?
12.Where to spend vacations? Leisure time?
13.Sick: Left alone or babied?
14.Appropriate gift giving: birthdays? Yuletide holidays?
Special occasions?
15.Who does what around the house?
16.What is acceptable hygiene?
17.What are his/her hobbies, pastimes?
18.Preferences: Music? Movie? Book favorites?
19.Favorite foods?
20.Pets or no pets? What kind?
21.Decisions about the children: School, church, discipline, allowance,
extra curricular activities, friends, and curfew?
22.Mealtimes: Early or late?
23.Furniture: Vintage or contemporary
24.Sleeping habits: Four hours or eight?
25.How does your new love handle a crisis?
26.Behave in public places?
27.Treat your friends and family?

個人的には19,26,27結構重要です