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Lovin' English 第３期のスタートとなったLesson12は、10/9（金）に
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ちなみにこの回のトピックは
Enough Dating Excuses （言い訳をやめて出会いを作ろう）です

Five Biggest Excuses That Ruin Your Dating Life - by Dating coach David Wygant
(Special to Yahoo! Personals)

Recently a reader posted a comment on my dating blog in which he questioned that I or anyone else could help him find a mate. He said he has tried "everything" to meet someone. He's tried pickup lines and routines. He's tried what some term "natural game." He said nothing has worked.

Then he started listing some of the reasons why things aren't working for him in his dating life. What did every one of his "reasons" have in common? They were all excuses.

Worse yet, in his mind he perceives each of these to be unchangeable facts of life instead of seeing them for what they really are: excuses he's created so he doesn't have to face his dating difficulties.

So many people make these kinds of excuses in order to feel justified in not putting themselves "out there" in the dating world, or to avoid having to face that they need to work on their confidence or conversation skills.

Here are five of the most common excuses people make about their dating lives, along with proactive ways to overcome those excuses.

1. I Am a Victim of Geography
I hear it every day from clients: "There are no good men (or women) to meet where I live." The fact is that where you live has nothing to do with you remaining single. It's your mindset and your belief system that are the problem, because there are great people to meet everywhere. I've worked with clients all over the world, and no matter where they reside I have always been able to show them how to meet people. You need to go out there with a better attitude.

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Today’s Vocabulary

pick-up lines or chat-up lines – a casual greeting to someone you don’t know but would like to get to know (and possibly develop a sexual relationship. Pick-up lines (or pickup lines) are conversation starters/openers (a conversational ice-breaker) to befriend strangers of the opposite sex. The goal of a pick-up line is to start a conversation with someone you don’t know, and hope that it leads to fun/humor, romance, or a future date.

“a natural” – Someone who is very good at what they do without having to practice or study – naturally. Someone who is very good at attracting members of the opposite sex.

“natural game” – A type of pickup that involves acting how a “natural” would act. Usually, it starts with changing your “inner game” which means to change your attitude and perception of women and social interactions. Then it focuses on how to attract women by saying things that are spontaneous, honest and many times very direct.

proactive – preparing for or controlling an expected occurrence. Taking action in to deal with an expected problem/difficulty.
victim – a person who is deceived or cheated by his or her own emotions or ignorance, by the dishonesty of others, or by some impersonal agency. Also a person who suffers from a destructive or injurious action.

mindset – how you think / your state of mind (attitude, disposition or mood)