Many men feel that they need to do a lot--sexually--in order to make their lover happy. They feel that a lot of stimulation and is required and many fancy techniques, etc. They feel that they must perform like an Olympic gymnast.
But the most important aspect is the heart--especially for a woman. The heart is very powerful. The heart actually creates a resonant electroagnetic field. When lovers make love according to the teachings of Polynesian Sex, then their hearts become unified, forming one large field of resonance. This makes their love very sweet and deep. It is profound both spiritually and physically. I hope you try it.