It's almost one year since I met that guy,but I know I can not be his
girlfriend..distance almost kill the relationship,now I even don't have
the cournage to ask him if he really loves me or not..
one year...already one year,I am just standing-by..waitting for the
chance...waitting for the time...up to now,I've already offered so much
big effort..but why I am still so confused...tired..I am getting to
tired now..getting tired to seek such a invisable key...
I love you but I can't tell by my own voice..I love you but I have to
keep it inside...
girlfriend..distance almost kill the relationship,now I even don't have
the cournage to ask him if he really loves me or not..
one year...already one year,I am just standing-by..waitting for the
chance...waitting for the time...up to now,I've already offered so much
big effort..but why I am still so confused...tired..I am getting to
tired now..getting tired to seek such a invisable key...
I love you but I can't tell by my own voice..I love you but I have to
keep it inside...
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thank you everyone!
I am growing up in Western society..most of my personality is more closer to Western..but just this part..I am still keep it in an Asian way..
I almost dream of him every day..but it's really difficult for me to
speak out..I've never ever said sukidaiyo to a guy before he gave me the positive answer..I am very independence girl outside.but deep in heart I am very longly..
I will feel extraordinary happy even he just said gambatte to me..
I met him when I was just 18..now I am almost 20..
once I have seen a tv drama called proposal dasaikusen..
Rei decided to tell Kensou her right feeling before the first day of
being 20 years old,which has already been kept inside over 14 years..
I am growing up in Western society..most of my personality is more closer to Western..but just this part..I am still keep it in an Asian way..
I almost dream of him every day..but it's really difficult for me to
speak out..I've never ever said sukidaiyo to a guy before he gave me the positive answer..I am very independence girl outside.but deep in heart I am very longly..
I will feel extraordinary happy even he just said gambatte to me..
I met him when I was just 18..now I am almost 20..
once I have seen a tv drama called proposal dasaikusen..
Rei decided to tell Kensou her right feeling before the first day of
being 20 years old,which has already been kept inside over 14 years..
do you want to regret without saying how you feel?
or do you want to regret because you tell him how you feel?
in my case, i don't want to regret without saying how i feel.
so, i always try to tell how i feel.
but sometimes it doesn't work well.
i think it is good idea to tell everything you have now.
it is really really really hard.
he might not understand what you say.
but keeping something inside kills you...
even though he can't understand, it's whorth enough of doing that, i guess.
hope you feel better, and he would recive your message
or do you want to regret because you tell him how you feel?
in my case, i don't want to regret without saying how i feel.
so, i always try to tell how i feel.
but sometimes it doesn't work well.
i think it is good idea to tell everything you have now.
it is really really really hard.
he might not understand what you say.
but keeping something inside kills you...
even though he can't understand, it's whorth enough of doing that, i guess.
hope you feel better, and he would recive your message
> everyone
Generally speaking, Japanese guys are strict or reticent and hardly say that I love you directly. Of course, there are also guys that say often “ I love you”.
So , I understand her feeling.
But I also think that it is so important for you to have the courage to tell him your all, if the timing would be OK!!
By the way, what do you all think are the most important qualities in a mate??
Generally speaking, Japanese guys are strict or reticent and hardly say that I love you directly. Of course, there are also guys that say often “ I love you”.
So , I understand her feeling.
But I also think that it is so important for you to have the courage to tell him your all, if the timing would be OK!!
By the way, what do you all think are the most important qualities in a mate??
<dewyjube+++
hehe..but it's a japanese community..I am also a part of Japanese,so just feel like more comfortable to do that
erm..true..but actually I already did sth few month ago..
here is the conversation between him and me when the last night before I left Japan few months agao
.....
me:actually, I feel sad about sth.
he:what is it?
m:Cuz the guy I like is not seem to like me.
h:....I like you,2.
m:really?but I can't feel it.You even took your friend go with us while
in hanabi
h:bcs he is more familiar about that area..
m:...
h:why u like me?
m:i don't know..personality..maybe.that's hard to say,just find it difficult to move you away from my heart since the first time I see you(erm,actually I am not directly translate from japanese,cuz sometimes you can not simple to translate one language into another language)
m:hey..I like you has a lotta of different meanings in chinese(cuz my father is half chinese,so i can speak chinese as well,and he also can speak fluntly chinese)..I don't know which one you are referring to
h:I mean I like you(this time he said it in English)
m:..do you really understand English?? I like you means sukidesu in English..you can't say that to everybody.
h:but that's what I mean..
so that's the very微妙conversation between us..
Do u think that's the positive answer??
the guy says that he likes me,but in the other hand nothing happened
during we live together..
I am really cinfused by that..that's why I don't know what I sgould do
afterwards
hehe..but it's a japanese community..I am also a part of Japanese,so just feel like more comfortable to do that
erm..true..but actually I already did sth few month ago..
here is the conversation between him and me when the last night before I left Japan few months agao
.....
me:actually, I feel sad about sth.
he:what is it?
m:Cuz the guy I like is not seem to like me.
h:....I like you,2.
m:really?but I can't feel it.You even took your friend go with us while
in hanabi
h:bcs he is more familiar about that area..
m:...
h:why u like me?
m:i don't know..personality..maybe.that's hard to say,just find it difficult to move you away from my heart since the first time I see you(erm,actually I am not directly translate from japanese,cuz sometimes you can not simple to translate one language into another language)
m:hey..I like you has a lotta of different meanings in chinese(cuz my father is half chinese,so i can speak chinese as well,and he also can speak fluntly chinese)..I don't know which one you are referring to
h:I mean I like you(this time he said it in English)
m:..do you really understand English?? I like you means sukidesu in English..you can't say that to everybody.
h:but that's what I mean..
so that's the very微妙conversation between us..
Do u think that's the positive answer??
the guy says that he likes me,but in the other hand nothing happened
during we live together..
I am really cinfused by that..that's why I don't know what I sgould do
afterwards
<じぇーむず san
I am also a part of Japanese,so I also understand why he will bahavier
like that..you are not the first one to advice me to do that.but you
know sometimes japanese girls also could be very shy..although I am not
100% Japanese,but that part is more close to Japanese..
but maybe I will tell me more directly when this time I back Japan..
try to understand each other,try to replace other's situation.
I am also a part of Japanese,so I also understand why he will bahavier
like that..you are not the first one to advice me to do that.but you
know sometimes japanese girls also could be very shy..although I am not
100% Japanese,but that part is more close to Japanese..
but maybe I will tell me more directly when this time I back Japan..
try to understand each other,try to replace other's situation.
i have told my feeling once in my life.
like you, some girls always asked me to be her boyfriend.
so, i didn't know who to tell my feeling.
but i tried.
i just can't keep my feeling inside.
so, i did.
i might have said something not nice, but i did my best.
i think the most important thing is trying to tell him.
the words will follow your feeling.
if you try, he would understand what you want to tell him really.
all what you want to tell him is that you love him a lot, right?
you might wanna say something else too, but it is most important thing, right?
it's not complicated.
nobody knows how like you.
at least, i do not know how.
probably, i could not say something really romantic.
but i think it's ok.
you don't need to make it difficult.
do whatever you want!
like you, some girls always asked me to be her boyfriend.
so, i didn't know who to tell my feeling.
but i tried.
i just can't keep my feeling inside.
so, i did.
i might have said something not nice, but i did my best.
i think the most important thing is trying to tell him.
the words will follow your feeling.
if you try, he would understand what you want to tell him really.
all what you want to tell him is that you love him a lot, right?
you might wanna say something else too, but it is most important thing, right?
it's not complicated.
nobody knows how like you.
at least, i do not know how.
probably, i could not say something really romantic.
but i think it's ok.
you don't need to make it difficult.
do whatever you want!
What if he also loves you and is not able to say it too.
Both of you may never end up together if one doesnt speaks up.
Have seen such cases in the past..Go Ahead gurl...there is no harm in expressing your feelings. The earlier said the better as you will have more time to move on if the response is in the negative.
Both of you may never end up together if one doesnt speaks up.
Have seen such cases in the past..Go Ahead gurl...there is no harm in expressing your feelings. The earlier said the better as you will have more time to move on if the response is in the negative.
<dewyjube
you also think that's not enough,right?
keep questioning??in a indirect way??
actually,I am already trying now..but sometimes I am still confused by
him
yes,you're right..no matter how disappointed I still want to know the answers..just wait for the right time,right place..I will try!
you also think that's not enough,right?
keep questioning??in a indirect way??
actually,I am already trying now..but sometimes I am still confused by
him
yes,you're right..no matter how disappointed I still want to know the answers..just wait for the right time,right place..I will try!
Well, "this too shall pass". Why is it that when we're young,
we get all caught up in our feelings, and don't speak the truth?
I guess that now that I'm getting older, I don't hesitate to let
a person know how I'm feeling. Perhaps they'll pull away from
me, perhaps they won't. I saw a quote somewhere on Mixi...
"If you do something, something will happen to you.
If you do nothing, nothing will happen to you."
Your time is limited--make the best of it!
we get all caught up in our feelings, and don't speak the truth?
I guess that now that I'm getting older, I don't hesitate to let
a person know how I'm feeling. Perhaps they'll pull away from
me, perhaps they won't. I saw a quote somewhere on Mixi...
"If you do something, something will happen to you.
If you do nothing, nothing will happen to you."
Your time is limited--make the best of it!
Hey! You only get one chance to say how much you like someone, right?
The way I look at things is "What is the worst that he can say? No?" No isn't bad, because you actually had the strength to ask him.
Absence can make the heart grow fonder! It really does. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we absolutely love each other.
I'm not sure how it works in Japan, but men really love it when you're frank and honest with them. I've been through enough men to say this (and I really shouldn't brag about that...
) But, I say to go for it!
The way I look at things is "What is the worst that he can say? No?" No isn't bad, because you actually had the strength to ask him.
Absence can make the heart grow fonder! It really does. My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we absolutely love each other.
I'm not sure how it works in Japan, but men really love it when you're frank and honest with them. I've been through enough men to say this (and I really shouldn't brag about that...
) But, I say to go for it!
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