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japanese boy hm...
speaking about japan people
i like them ,they are pro , cleaver and polite,(specialy the girl^^). but we allways belive no body perfect! is true! i don,t like them when they got some problem
they always take a shortcut
they drunk and even do a harakiri
so wierd!
but i really like japanese girl im wierd too ^^
so just gambate
speaking about japan people
i like them ,they are pro , cleaver and polite,(specialy the girl^^). but we allways belive no body perfect! is true! i don,t like them when they got some problem
they always take a shortcut
they drunk and even do a harakiri
so wierd!
but i really like japanese girl im wierd too ^^
so just gambate
It takes effort and dedication from foreign girls to date japanese guys... Most foreign girls have simply gotten used to letting the guy make all the moves.... this won't work very well with Japanese guys. IF foreign women invest the effort to get the J-guys to open up, then they will reap the rewards. Another problem is that most foreign women I see are obsessed with visual-kei boys, which is pretty much something which the average j-guy is simply not interested in. Even visual-kei boys in gereral are much more different in real life from the fantasies that foreign women attribute to them when listening to their music. Nothing wrong with that, of course, but it certainly explains why so many foreign guys are dating japanese girls, and so few foreign women are dating j-guys... because j-guys ARE interested in foreign girls, but many think that the girls are not interested in them (inferiority complex, perhaps?)...
But there's a double-edged sword... foreign women can't be too aggressive, either. That sometimes scares the boys off. ^.^;; I've got a lot of Japanese friends and when I ask them about American women (because we're here in the States) they shake their heads. They say that they'd like to find a nice girlfriend but the women here are too aggressive. ^.^;
hey , im a man , japanese . i used to have a girl friend from other country .
unfortunetly , we are no longer couple , but i think i learned a lot from her .
i think if you wanna japanese boy , you have to make the move first .
as alot of people said it's pretty tough to find a japanese boyfriend . Cz they are so shy . i believe that is true .
but im sure many japanese men wanna talk to foreign girls.
they are interested in having relationship with foreign girls .they just dont know how to bigin to talk to you .
japanese boys have huge complex with their language skill more than you imagined .
they will show you that how funny they are if you talk to them .
good luck !!
unfortunetly , we are no longer couple , but i think i learned a lot from her .
i think if you wanna japanese boy , you have to make the move first .
as alot of people said it's pretty tough to find a japanese boyfriend . Cz they are so shy . i believe that is true .
but im sure many japanese men wanna talk to foreign girls.
they are interested in having relationship with foreign girls .they just dont know how to bigin to talk to you .
japanese boys have huge complex with their language skill more than you imagined .
they will show you that how funny they are if you talk to them .
good luck !!
My 27 year old friend from university told me about a Japanese boy she dated whilst living and working in Japan.
He would abuse her by hitting her and he would often ignore her by hanging out with his friends playing on the computer when she was their, she hated every moment of it but was scared of him so she didn`t end it as soon as she would have liked to.
She now does not like Japanese boys and would never date one again. I told her that this bad experience can`t let her be put of ALL Japanese men, but she wouldn`t accept it...but some of my Japanese friends have also told me about how their boyfriends would hit them etc.
I know that a lot of the people i know in England would not date Japanese guys as they believe that they wouldn`t get the respect that they deserve.
He would abuse her by hitting her and he would often ignore her by hanging out with his friends playing on the computer when she was their, she hated every moment of it but was scared of him so she didn`t end it as soon as she would have liked to.
She now does not like Japanese boys and would never date one again. I told her that this bad experience can`t let her be put of ALL Japanese men, but she wouldn`t accept it...but some of my Japanese friends have also told me about how their boyfriends would hit them etc.
I know that a lot of the people i know in England would not date Japanese guys as they believe that they wouldn`t get the respect that they deserve.
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Are you joking?
Japanese boy was hitting her??reallyy??
wow!I suprised.Becuase,I knew that japanese boys never hit their girls,their wifes!
This man was stupid!!!He must be abnormal!!He is not normal...!!!
I like japanese guys and I always saw that they are more polite than foreigner guys!
I dont know..I think,this is open to discuss!
Are you joking?
Japanese boy was hitting her??reallyy??
wow!I suprised.Becuase,I knew that japanese boys never hit their girls,their wifes!
This man was stupid!!!He must be abnormal!!He is not normal...!!!
I like japanese guys and I always saw that they are more polite than foreigner guys!
I dont know..I think,this is open to discuss!
Dear @YsH@,
Finding a Bf that will respect and love you, is never an easy process.
Don't let one person's bad experience discourage you!
Not every Japanese boy is like that!
You must remember, that with anyone you date....regardless of their nationality...there is always a chance that they could be mean.
The point is that you are careful whom you pick, and how quickly you get deeply involved with that person.
I prefer Japanese men myself, because like you say-
They are more polite...etc...
But this is also how I was raised, coming from a family that did business in Japan.
If I had no love for Japan- then I'm sure I would find a white guy, that would be just as perfect for me.
My current BF,(who is Japanese), is very sweet and gentle with me!
Yes, we do have some problems once in awhile...but never to the point of hitting or yelling.
Our problems mainly come from misunderstanding, and the fact that we are seperated every year for 4 months.
Proper communication and understanding is needed from both partners.
However! The first Japanese guy I dated...was exactly like the one described in comment #22.
It was not because he was Japanese, but because he had problems controlling his anger.
I'm sure any Japanese men your age, would tell you that this kind of behaviour is unnacceptable.
Actually...any man that was decent, or who cared for you, would say this....whether they are white, black, or Asian.
Please remember, there are good people and bad.
I can tell just as many happy love stories between couples from different countries, as I can bad.
Your biggest dilemma with dating a Japanese man, will come from your understanding and acceptance of his culture, and his with yours...as well as how well you two can communicate.
I assure you, it will not be because he is Japanese!
Good luck in your quest for love!!! Don't give up!!!
Finding a Bf that will respect and love you, is never an easy process.
Don't let one person's bad experience discourage you!
Not every Japanese boy is like that!
You must remember, that with anyone you date....regardless of their nationality...there is always a chance that they could be mean.
The point is that you are careful whom you pick, and how quickly you get deeply involved with that person.
I prefer Japanese men myself, because like you say-
They are more polite...etc...
But this is also how I was raised, coming from a family that did business in Japan.
If I had no love for Japan- then I'm sure I would find a white guy, that would be just as perfect for me.
My current BF,(who is Japanese), is very sweet and gentle with me!
Yes, we do have some problems once in awhile...but never to the point of hitting or yelling.
Our problems mainly come from misunderstanding, and the fact that we are seperated every year for 4 months.
Proper communication and understanding is needed from both partners.
However! The first Japanese guy I dated...was exactly like the one described in comment #22.
It was not because he was Japanese, but because he had problems controlling his anger.
I'm sure any Japanese men your age, would tell you that this kind of behaviour is unnacceptable.
Actually...any man that was decent, or who cared for you, would say this....whether they are white, black, or Asian.
Please remember, there are good people and bad.
I can tell just as many happy love stories between couples from different countries, as I can bad.
Your biggest dilemma with dating a Japanese man, will come from your understanding and acceptance of his culture, and his with yours...as well as how well you two can communicate.
I assure you, it will not be because he is Japanese!
Good luck in your quest for love!!! Don't give up!!!
I used to go out w/ a J-boy for abt 1.5 yrs, we had lotta argument in da 1st couple month, cuz we were misunderstanding each other, since we have totally different value, background, language,etc...
I got to admit dat I had a hard time, cuz we are 2 different in many ways. But as I look and think back, it's all rewarding, and I am glad dat we were once a couple.
From my experience, I think althou from all the traces that you gathered through the relationship, you would probably feel sad as somtimes you dun get back the amount of passion that you devoted into the relationship, yet, they do care and treasure the things that you've done for them. In brief, they are actually very yasashi, and which will definitely make you cry when you finally find out.
And the best gift from da relationship is dat I got to know how to be a better girlfriend and cherish someone dat I love.
I got to admit dat I had a hard time, cuz we are 2 different in many ways. But as I look and think back, it's all rewarding, and I am glad dat we were once a couple.
From my experience, I think althou from all the traces that you gathered through the relationship, you would probably feel sad as somtimes you dun get back the amount of passion that you devoted into the relationship, yet, they do care and treasure the things that you've done for them. In brief, they are actually very yasashi, and which will definitely make you cry when you finally find out.
And the best gift from da relationship is dat I got to know how to be a better girlfriend and cherish someone dat I love.
- mixiユーザー
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