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it depends on the person. some people have a good relationship with the ex and want to continue the friendship, or they have a bad relationship and dont want to see that person ever again, or, they just dont want to be friends.
i am not friends with any of my ex's
because we just didnt want to be friends..
and sometimes people just dont want to be around people that their ex knew.
i am not friends with any of my ex's
because we just didnt want to be friends..
and sometimes people just dont want to be around people that their ex knew.
I don't get that whole "let's stay friends" rubbish. I have only one ex who is actually a friend and after the breakup we didn't see each other for nearly 5 years. Now I'm godfather to her 2 children.
From experience, that distance is really important....I went out with a girl years ago. After we broke up we mutually decided to remain friendly....only problem is we kept falling back into bed. It was completely doing my head in. I didn't know if I was coming or going. In the end I put some distance between us and the sun started shining again.
From experience, that distance is really important....I went out with a girl years ago. After we broke up we mutually decided to remain friendly....only problem is we kept falling back into bed. It was completely doing my head in. I didn't know if I was coming or going. In the end I put some distance between us and the sun started shining again.
That common phrase of "Let's be friends" shouldn't be taken literally and that's my opinion.
Sometimes the "dumper" will use this line to escape from feeling guilty or to avoid any awkward situation...
And if the "dumpee" literally believes the line, well, that's a beginning of some messy break-up... :P
Sometimes the "dumper" will use this line to escape from feeling guilty or to avoid any awkward situation...
And if the "dumpee" literally believes the line, well, that's a beginning of some messy break-up... :P
>azatamaさん
Yeah, that's true. Some of my exes thought that way and we had to end the both.
But other exes (how many exes do I have!? ahaha) anyway, agreed with me
and we have been keeping in touch and even go traveling together once in a while.
It's very hard to find a good friend, so I rather want to still be their friends after braking up as lovers. That's how I feel.
Yeah, that's true. Some of my exes thought that way and we had to end the both.
But other exes (how many exes do I have!? ahaha) anyway, agreed with me
and we have been keeping in touch and even go traveling together once in a while.
It's very hard to find a good friend, so I rather want to still be their friends after braking up as lovers. That's how I feel.
Mika-san 8 & 10:
I don't know how you can go from being a lover to a friend.....even the other way from being a friend to a lover is hard for me. Maybe women are better at it than men.
I went out with a girl once who got really upset when I said I didn't think I could do friendship. She dumped me and then wanted me to be her friend....I wasn't nasty about it but after a breakup you go crazy for a little while and I think (at least for me) space is the only thing that helps.
I don't know how you can go from being a lover to a friend.....even the other way from being a friend to a lover is hard for me. Maybe women are better at it than men.
I went out with a girl once who got really upset when I said I didn't think I could do friendship. She dumped me and then wanted me to be her friend....I wasn't nasty about it but after a breakup you go crazy for a little while and I think (at least for me) space is the only thing that helps.
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