Writing words often impress me with strong languege than verbal one. So I am careful to select a word in writing, especially when I do my opinion in SNS.
BUT, It is for non-native to seize tone of foreign language.
Please show words that you suppose as emotive or detached language. And show things that you pay attention in writing.
I meant harsh words which often make people offensive.
In a thread, a man said that “hate” was emotive word, and “treat” was detached word.
When I post in Japanese, of course, I am careful to choose words, but it comparably easy, because I can show politeness in grammatical way, using honorific words.
But I feel that English politeness depends on a word select.