Is it so amazing that not all guys are as shallow as you think?
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Two cents....
I've known a lot of girls who I thought were stunning when I first met
them. Not many girls get more beautiful as you start to know them
better.
I don't really like saying ugly because very few girls (or guys) could
genuinely be described as ugly but there are girls who I have found
unattractive at first but over time they have become beautiful in my
eyes.
I've known a lot of girls who I thought were stunning when I first met
them. Not many girls get more beautiful as you start to know them
better.
I don't really like saying ugly because very few girls (or guys) could
genuinely be described as ugly but there are girls who I have found
unattractive at first but over time they have become beautiful in my
eyes.
>Rob
You took the words right out of my mouth.... don't be afraid to speak the truth! You know deep down inside you aren't joking!
>Men liking Ugly smart girls
I understand men, trust me I do. I this thing we call the interwebs you are trying to viewed as the "good guy" who isn't "shallow" in hopes that a girl reading these posts can say "
awww... that guy is soooo sweet he doesnt care if I look exactly like an ugly guy with a wig on.
" When, once again, deep down in your heart of hearts.... You know you care .... a lot!
You took the words right out of my mouth.... don't be afraid to speak the truth! You know deep down inside you aren't joking!
>Men liking Ugly smart girls
I understand men, trust me I do. I this thing we call the interwebs you are trying to viewed as the "good guy" who isn't "shallow" in hopes that a girl reading these posts can say "
awww... that guy is soooo sweet he doesnt care if I look exactly like an ugly guy with a wig on." When, once again, deep down in your heart of hearts.... You know you care .... a lot!
Am I the only one here who thinks that intelligence isn't that important? Whether I'm seeing you as a potential romantic interest or even just a friend (male or female), I really really don't care how educated you are or what your IQ is or whatever. There are far more important qualities in a person, IMO. So yeah, all other things being equal, "beautiful stupid girl" all the way.
this topic reminded me of a rap song in the 80s called "find an ungly woman"
Find An Ugly Woman Music Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqD_4-3gMCA&feature=related
LYRICS
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman, and make her your wife
I mean ugly, so bad you can't look in her face
So fat she can't go down and tie her shoe lace
Now the reason that I say this, is simple and plain
All the pretty girls, man, they just play games
With your mind and your time, they're not with it
Cause if you ain't got no money, then you might as well (hit it)
But with an ugly girl, man, they'll simply adore ya
Like you can mess around and they'll still be there for ya
Cause you're all she has, and you're all she can get
So run out and find yourself an ugly chick
They'll be honest all the time, so boy, don't pursue her
Cause she's ugly as hell, nobody'll talk to her
So what she's a (bat) and a Godzilla (creature)
But it's not how she looks, it's how the girl (treats ya)
So if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman and make her your wife
Cause pretty girls'll have you cryin the blues
But when a ugly girl leaves (she ain't nothin to lose)
Now here's a time of my life I won't forget for the world
When Cash hooked me up with this ugly girl
He said (Marv, she's bad, and she's a musical producer)
But I shoulda known with a name like Medusa
When she opened the door, man, it wasn't even funny
Cause the girl reminded me of King-Kong Bonnie
Bald-headed and fat, boy, she blew my mind
But she captured my heart (why) cause she was kind
Sat me down at the table for a bite to eat
Gave me a rose and a kiss on the cheek
My mind was in shock, man, I thought I was dreamin
Cause everytime I looked at her, I felt like screamin
I thought about leavin, but I stopped and chilled
Just thought to myself: can this be real?
She's not pretty at all, but she treats me like a king
(Is that why you care for that ugly thing?)
Yeah Cash, you probably dog her and call her a creep
But you know what? (what?) beauty's only skin deep
And no matter what you say, man, she seems to be sweet
Cause I've been datin her now for the past three weeks
So if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman (yup) and make her your wife
Cause pretty girls'll have you cryin the blues
But when a ugly girl leaves (she ain't nothin to lose)
Find An Ugly Woman Music Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqD_4-3gMCA&feature=related
LYRICS
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman, and make her your wife
I mean ugly, so bad you can't look in her face
So fat she can't go down and tie her shoe lace
Now the reason that I say this, is simple and plain
All the pretty girls, man, they just play games
With your mind and your time, they're not with it
Cause if you ain't got no money, then you might as well (hit it)
But with an ugly girl, man, they'll simply adore ya
Like you can mess around and they'll still be there for ya
Cause you're all she has, and you're all she can get
So run out and find yourself an ugly chick
They'll be honest all the time, so boy, don't pursue her
Cause she's ugly as hell, nobody'll talk to her
So what she's a (bat) and a Godzilla (creature)
But it's not how she looks, it's how the girl (treats ya)
So if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman and make her your wife
Cause pretty girls'll have you cryin the blues
But when a ugly girl leaves (she ain't nothin to lose)
Now here's a time of my life I won't forget for the world
When Cash hooked me up with this ugly girl
He said (Marv, she's bad, and she's a musical producer)
But I shoulda known with a name like Medusa
When she opened the door, man, it wasn't even funny
Cause the girl reminded me of King-Kong Bonnie
Bald-headed and fat, boy, she blew my mind
But she captured my heart (why) cause she was kind
Sat me down at the table for a bite to eat
Gave me a rose and a kiss on the cheek
My mind was in shock, man, I thought I was dreamin
Cause everytime I looked at her, I felt like screamin
I thought about leavin, but I stopped and chilled
Just thought to myself: can this be real?
She's not pretty at all, but she treats me like a king
(Is that why you care for that ugly thing?)
Yeah Cash, you probably dog her and call her a creep
But you know what? (what?) beauty's only skin deep
And no matter what you say, man, she seems to be sweet
Cause I've been datin her now for the past three weeks
So if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Man, find an ugly woman (yup) and make her your wife
Cause pretty girls'll have you cryin the blues
But when a ugly girl leaves (she ain't nothin to lose)
I don't speak for all guys here. But the thing I think that makes woman so appealing is their looks. For a man to say he wouldn't care how a woman looks so as long as she's smart ... hmmm.... I'm not sure about that one. I'm sure there's a demographic out there somewhere. But the majority of men want a great looking woman. Ideally you'd want balance. The looks and the brains. Everyone hates stupid people lol. But honestly speaking, as men (humans), before even getting to know a person or their personality, we are attracted to their appearance and exterior. Eventually some will want to dig deeper and see if she has brains as well. But to answer this question, I'd probably honestly would go with the Dumb beautiful woman. I can't lie to myself. I'm visual.
# 48
You're absolutely right.
Sometimes, we will get a beautiful new employee here at work. I've discovered that the best way to get her off my mind is to actually MEET her...
7 times out of 10, when one meets a stunningly beautiful woman, she says or does something that takes her own beauty down several notches, and suddenly she's not worth dreaming about anymore.
# 54
Maybe the best thing is to find a beautiful woman who doesn't think she is beautiful. Japan has many women like that.
You're absolutely right.
Sometimes, we will get a beautiful new employee here at work. I've discovered that the best way to get her off my mind is to actually MEET her...
7 times out of 10, when one meets a stunningly beautiful woman, she says or does something that takes her own beauty down several notches, and suddenly she's not worth dreaming about anymore.
# 54
Maybe the best thing is to find a beautiful woman who doesn't think she is beautiful. Japan has many women like that.
There is a comedian named Ron White here that pretty much sums of my feelings on the matter:
"If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have LASIK surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever. "
"If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have LASIK surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever. "
Just my honest opinion
1 I try to look at things from a realistic point of view, and 2 you have to be honest with yourself on what you are looking for, short term or long term.
So...if it is short term ( just wanting to have some fun nothing serious ), I think "sexy and stupid" would be my first choice, if it is long term....rather than "ugly" ( hey I have too much self respect for that ) I would go for a girl who is somewhere in the middle and here are my reasons why.
Yes it is true for men that the first thing they look at when being attracted to a woman is their looks, anyone who says otherwise is clearly lying to try and seem unique to "catch/con" in some truly stupid people. However...most men also know there is plenty of 10/10 women out there who have the most bitchy ugly selfish personalities to go along with that, so over time...the looks really start to fade and like the saying goes, if you see some drop dead gorgeous woman you would love to get with, you can also bet money that there is a bunch of guys who did get with her who wanted her out of their life also.
For a long term serious relationship, if you go with a girl who is not ugly, but good looking ( maybe not drop dead good looking unless you luck out ) then chances are they will not be so self absorbed worrying about attention and making the relationship work, that she will stick around long enough and either make a good longer term gf or wife. and possibly a mother.
Personally speaking I value looks and intelligence in a woman, and I think if it is balanced then that is very attractive, cause I sure would not want to spend my life with someone who is 100% beautiful who cannot carry on a conversation or speak her mind.
1 I try to look at things from a realistic point of view, and 2 you have to be honest with yourself on what you are looking for, short term or long term.
So...if it is short term ( just wanting to have some fun nothing serious ), I think "sexy and stupid" would be my first choice, if it is long term....rather than "ugly" ( hey I have too much self respect for that ) I would go for a girl who is somewhere in the middle and here are my reasons why.
Yes it is true for men that the first thing they look at when being attracted to a woman is their looks, anyone who says otherwise is clearly lying to try and seem unique to "catch/con" in some truly stupid people. However...most men also know there is plenty of 10/10 women out there who have the most bitchy ugly selfish personalities to go along with that, so over time...the looks really start to fade and like the saying goes, if you see some drop dead gorgeous woman you would love to get with, you can also bet money that there is a bunch of guys who did get with her who wanted her out of their life also.
For a long term serious relationship, if you go with a girl who is not ugly, but good looking ( maybe not drop dead good looking unless you luck out ) then chances are they will not be so self absorbed worrying about attention and making the relationship work, that she will stick around long enough and either make a good longer term gf or wife. and possibly a mother.
Personally speaking I value looks and intelligence in a woman, and I think if it is balanced then that is very attractive, cause I sure would not want to spend my life with someone who is 100% beautiful who cannot carry on a conversation or speak her mind.
@ #71
well like I said before in one of my comments here...
each person has their own opinions about if that "formula" is true or not, that is like asking someone to define common sense...who sets the standard of what is "common sense?" basically...to each their own!
to keep it simple--> opinions are like a$$holes, everyone has one!
well like I said before in one of my comments here...
each person has their own opinions about if that "formula" is true or not, that is like asking someone to define common sense...who sets the standard of what is "common sense?" basically...to each their own!
to keep it simple--> opinions are like a$$holes, everyone has one!
@ #75
I can't say that this is true for your parents, as I don't know them...
I can't really badmouth them if I don't know them!
But if the shoe fits then wear it!
Just like I stated in my last post(#73) here.
#74, that's cool "kimi" also supports your way of thinking!
Here is more:
OFFICE ARITHMETIC
Formula: Boss ＋ Employee = affair
Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime
I can't say that this is true for your parents, as I don't know them...
I can't really badmouth them if I don't know them!
But if the shoe fits then wear it!
Just like I stated in my last post(#73) here.
#74, that's cool "kimi" also supports your way of thinking!
Here is more:
OFFICE ARITHMETIC
Formula: Boss ＋ Employee = affair
Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime
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No, no... I didnt mean it that way. I meant if i would agree with that statement I would feel like I would badmouth my own parents. And every male in history that was ever married (Einstein, Lincoln, etc)
I'm rather sure you had no intention to do so, seeing that you dont know my parents.
No, no... I didnt mean it that way. I meant if i would agree with that statement I would feel like I would badmouth my own parents. And every male in history that was ever married (Einstein, Lincoln, etc)
I'm rather sure you had no intention to do so, seeing that you dont know my parents.
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