Hmm seems the thread about "weird relationship" is gone...
so in case some ppl still have things to say about
- Sex friends
- Fuck buddy
- Polyamory
and other "more than normal" relationships, feel free to post here.
I hate when lots of ppl put effort and time writing messages and the whole stuff just goes Poof ...
edit ... cuz we should always promote THAT message
Having Casual Fun is OK if all the Partners / Players are OK with it
Protect yourself and your partner(s) : GUY MUST WEAR CONDOM
Have fun
so in case some ppl still have things to say about
- Sex friends
- Fuck buddy
- Polyamory
and other "more than normal" relationships, feel free to post here.
I hate when lots of ppl put effort and time writing messages and the whole stuff just goes Poof ...
edit ... cuz we should always promote THAT message
Having Casual Fun is OK if all the Partners / Players are OK with it Protect yourself and your partner(s) : GUY MUST WEAR CONDOM Have fun
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Sorry if this is off topic, but what's the difference between a sex friend/mate and a fuck buddy? Besides one of them is okay to say before 8PM and the other get beeped out on television...
My view on Sex friend = I wouldn't do it, too scary. But I don't care if someone does it, as long as he isn't doing my little sister. Use a condom, even if the girl says she is on the pills.
>7 Rob
/pat /pat
It's not the length, it's the garth (by Miranda Hobbs in Sex and the City)
My view on Sex friend = I wouldn't do it, too scary. But I don't care if someone does it, as long as he isn't doing my little sister. Use a condom, even if the girl says she is on the pills.
>7 Rob
/pat /pat
It's not the length, it's the garth (by Miranda Hobbs in Sex and the City)
When it comes to casual sex, condom is first to protect BOTH partners from STDs. So no matter yourviews on birth control, protect yourself and your partner(s) with the most effective solution.
Sure there MIGHT still be some risks, nothing is 100% foolproof,
condom might break, you may loose it, whatever.. but if used properly (watch those nails!) it DOES WORK FINE.
find the brand / type of condom you like and that fits you and stick to it ;-)
The way I see it,
a sex friend is someone you enjoy spending time with and may have sex with, NSA.
A fuck buddy is someone who is there mainly for sex, nothing else much. A sexercise partner...
Sure there MIGHT still be some risks, nothing is 100% foolproof,
condom might break, you may loose it, whatever.. but if used properly (watch those nails!) it DOES WORK FINE.
find the brand / type of condom you like and that fits you and stick to it ;-)
The way I see it,
a sex friend is someone you enjoy spending time with and may have sex with, NSA.
A fuck buddy is someone who is there mainly for sex, nothing else much. A sexercise partner...
So in the amount of emotion involved in the relationship by most English speakers, it goes like this? ("most" being the operative word)
Fuck buddy < Sex friend < Girlfriend / Boyfriend < Husband / Wife / Life Partner
I had never heard of anyone saying how a sex friend and a fuck buddy being different until I stumbled upon this thread, even though I watched Sex and the City religiously and have guy mates that always talk about sex (a little too much to be honest)
I guess you learn something everyday
Thx
Fuck buddy < Sex friend < Girlfriend / Boyfriend < Husband / Wife / Life Partner
I had never heard of anyone saying how a sex friend and a fuck buddy being different until I stumbled upon this thread, even though I watched Sex and the City religiously and have guy mates that always talk about sex (a little too much to be honest)
I guess you learn something everyday
Thx
>11 Trance .. BB is a famous Happening Bar, Silk is another one in Shinjuku very Gaijin Friendly.
Then there is SB in Shibuya. All those places are run by ppl with experience in the scene and they know how to create good atmosphere for the patrons.
As someone said, some of the best encounters (intellectual / personality wise) I had were in Happening bars.
Then there is SB in Shibuya. All those places are run by ppl with experience in the scene and they know how to create good atmosphere for the patrons.
As someone said, some of the best encounters (intellectual / personality wise) I had were in Happening bars.
I find that some people will define sex friend and fuck buddy in the same way. Others will define them differently. I've heard a sex friend being referred to as a "friend with benefits". As long as the people concerned agree on the same definition for their relationship and are happy with it then there should be no problem.
As long as you're safe and able to deal with any situations that arise responsibly, sex friends can be a wonderful thing! Of course everyone wants to fall in love, but in the meantime, life is to be enjoyed. If you don't want to do it, then don't, if you do, then do it responsibly. Either way, have fun!
> JULIEさん
He probably means that you stay as friends, but you also have a physical relationship.
One other thing that is very important is mutual respec for each other and each other's lifestyles. I think one problem that occurs when two people engage in this sort of relationship is that one person gets emotionally involved while the other person doesn't. The emotionally involved person wants to meet all the time, but their partner can't always accomodate them which can cause stress on both sides.
He probably means that you stay as friends, but you also have a physical relationship.
One other thing that is very important is mutual respec for each other and each other's lifestyles. I think one problem that occurs when two people engage in this sort of relationship is that one person gets emotionally involved while the other person doesn't. The emotionally involved person wants to meet all the time, but their partner can't always accomodate them which can cause stress on both sides.
I say FWB in stead of calling "fuck buddy". FWB means someone who you have sex with without having a commitment or relationship.
You can work fine with a FWB if both of you don't have feelings for the other, and if both of you don't have expectations about the future of the relationship. I think it's not easy to maintaing the right mindset to maintain this type of relationship. It seems to me that one of the two always ends up getting more attached, and then ends up getting hurt.
You can work fine with a FWB if both of you don't have feelings for the other, and if both of you don't have expectations about the future of the relationship. I think it's not easy to maintaing the right mindset to maintain this type of relationship. It seems to me that one of the two always ends up getting more attached, and then ends up getting hurt.
I think >20 is completely right.
For those who are not "players" or into this "Lifestyle" it may seems like a free pass to lust and sexual pleasure. It is not.
If you choose to have play partners, you still care about them. It is very different than a simple "one night stand".
Heck. I spent much more time with them just having dinner, drink, chat than "doing it".
You care for them , you respect them, you are not judgemental about their needs and wants.
And such partners (open-minded, sexually aware, willing to have NSA fun, ...) are not easy to find, even in Tokyo
I personally find that ppl with some experience in this lifestyle are better suited to deal with any emotional issue that may rise.
And issues, as in any relaltionship, happen.
For those who are not "players" or into this "Lifestyle" it may seems like a free pass to lust and sexual pleasure. It is not.
If you choose to have play partners, you still care about them. It is very different than a simple "one night stand".
Heck. I spent much more time with them just having dinner, drink, chat than "doing it".
You care for them , you respect them, you are not judgemental about their needs and wants.
And such partners (open-minded, sexually aware, willing to have NSA fun, ...) are not easy to find, even in Tokyo
I personally find that ppl with some experience in this lifestyle are better suited to deal with any emotional issue that may rise.
And issues, as in any relaltionship, happen.
I'm not surprised. The act of procreation is one of the most primal instincts of every living thing. Humans are just one species that also do it for recreation.
I don't know if everyone would like a variety of partners though. I, for one, would prefer one person with whom there is mutual trust and understanding, where we can relax, release any stress and just enjoy ourselves. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable with a new face every few days. Still, each to their own.
I don't know if everyone would like a variety of partners though. I, for one, would prefer one person with whom there is mutual trust and understanding, where we can relax, release any stress and just enjoy ourselves. I don't know if I'd feel comfortable with a new face every few days. Still, each to their own
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