What do you guys think? Is acting according to "moral" really worth it? Would one be rewarded with much good? Or if someone you really fancy turned out to be your (not-so-close but a friend nevertheless) friend's BF/GF, and wanted to make out with you, should you go ahead and make out?
So you're asking us if going after somebody that is already in a relationship is okay? That decision is yours, but ask yourself this question first: If that person is willing to leave who they are currently with for you, what makes you think they won't do the same thing to you?
that's really nice and interesting topic.. actully the girls are making the boys fool.. i saw many of my friends you had the experice of doing the same you had ask but all it was bas experince and the same was with me once.. even i am still too young!
It will be better you ask yourself first and think your future don't decide anything in sudden!
Cheerz!
Campai!
Karim
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that's really nice and interesting topic.. actully the girls are making the boys fool.. i saw many of my friends you had the experice of doing the same you had ask but all it was bas experince and the same was with me once.. even i am still too young!
It will be better you ask yourself first and think your future don't decide anything in sudden!
Cheerz!
Campai!
Karim
From Hunza Valley Karakarum
http://www.flickr.com/adventurelovers
Cheers for all the comments!
The reason why I asked this was recently, I've been thinking about my ex quite a bit, which annoys the hell out of me. When we were together, things were great.
Anyways, I left bunch of stuff at my ex's, and my ex sent me an e-mail saying whether I want my stuff sent. I told my ex to sell the DVDs and use the money to send me the stuff. Well, it never got sent. I think my ex liked my DVD and didn't want to sell it. My suspicion comes from the fact that my ex used a line from one of the films that I had in the e-mail (lol kinda funny, I know). When they weren't a gift! My ex's friends probably do not know about this. It just really angers me because some of the stuff I left (which I should have known better) actually have emotional value, and I said that on my e-mail, and can't understand why someone would be so callous. I still want my stuff back, but not letting your past go is not the best way to go. It angers me that they, even though they probably said a lot of **** bout me after we broke up (cuz that's what ppl do) watch my DVDs. Unless I take a plane ticket and confront my ex, I don't see what else I can do. I should let it go, because I shouldn't give too much power to any one person.
As for the anecdote I had on the OP. I ended up not making out, although it was a really tough thing to do, for I haven't felt that strongly for anyone for a long time. And by trying hard, I mean it was pretty persistent. Well, they both stopped talking to me, and I am not really sure why.
I have been trying to always do the right thing, but it seems like it doesn't get appreciated from time to time.....