She actually has a boyfriend and lives with him. Their relationship is good. However, long-term cohabitation or companionship can turn romantic feelings into family love. She also wants to enjoy romantic feelings, but does not want to break up with him or have a flirt with other man in reality. So she wants to love other man only online. However, she doesn't want to have sex in the game, because sex is so realistic even online. She wants a platonic love limited to online. And if she couldn't get a romance because of such harsh conditions, she would give up on love. Maybe . . she wants you find a real girl friend, and don't waste time on her.