先日、いつものように彼のおそらく元寛恕のことを引き合いに出してきて比較されました。
その彼女はシングルマザーでオンラインで講座を取っていて・・・なんでお前はやらないんだ?と。。。
お金もないのにそんなのできないし、私は彼女じゃないから比べられても困る、と言ったところ
I am comparing you to other women who have it so much worse than you do right now. The fact that you can't move forward given all that you have been provided with....is absolutely astonishing to me. なんて言われました。びっくりです。。。
providedって言われてもこの家もいつ出てかなきゃいけないかわかんないし、彼はモルゲージも払ってないし、光熱費もためっぱなしなんですけど・・・。
なので、今はご自身の幸せだけを考えて行動してください。If you cannot cater to your needs and wants, how will you do the same for others? You have all the rights to take care of yourself, just yourself and not others. You'll only be able to look after others only when you truly know how to love yourself.
How Long Does My Obligation as a Sponsor Continue?
Your obligation to support the immigrant(s) you are sponsoring in this affidavit of support will continue until the sponsored immigrant becomes a U.S. citizen, or can be credited with 40 qualifying quarters of work in the United States. Although 40 qualifying quarters of work (credits) generally equate to ten years of work, in certain cases the work of a spouse or parent adds qualifying quarters. The Social Security Administration can provide information on how to count qualifying quarters (credits) of work. The obligation also ends if you or the sponsored immigrant dies or if the sponsored immigrant ceases to be a lawful permanent resident and departs the United States. Divorce does not end the sponsorship obligation.