Have you ever been trapped on a crowded train and had a very attractive young lady back into you and get pinned there! Unable to move at all! Smashing her butt against your " Private part" until there is a reaction! At this time are you supposed to be embarrassed or just enjoy the ride? Some natural reactions are just uncontrollable and can not be stopped. Especially in the mornings. This is probably a "Taboo" type question and I bet no one will admit that this happens :) You don`t have to be a sick pervert for this to happen either. Erections are not always choosey.
I had something similar happen to me once, but it wasn't in japan... I think it's a bit dangerous to enjoy the ride unless you can get a clear tip that she has shown any curiosity towards you as well... because trains have a very bad reputation for sexual harassment, and you might give the woman the wrong idea... but yea I agree that erecrions can't really be helped in those situations...
I think maybe just try to give the impression that you're not specifically taking advantage of her...
if you're enjoying too much, she might get the wrong idea, so if you try to give an image of "caught up by surprise of the situation", then I think she wouldn't necessarily think badly of you. But that's just my opinion, maybe a girl would be better to answer this... but hey I envy you, man!
tell her! tell her that it is inappropirate! save your skin! avoid the danger!
haha... i'm a girl, and if i really bumped into you accidentally and i feel you getting a hard-on, i will be very offended and probably call the police immediately. otherwise i'll step on your foot and slap your face.
remember, even if she did it on purpose, the law is always biased towards women in molestation cases. so don't expect others to believe you if you said it wasn't your fault...
I totally agree with ovvie. p, even if you didn't mean it, you could get in trouble if she felt offended by it.
Try covering your thing with a bag or a book or something...
To avoid any situation of this sort I always wear a single-strap bag that can be moved over the crotch if a train starts to fill up and I'm a little "frisky".
Then again I have to say I'm impressed by anybody who gets a hard-on in this situation. Sure, there's the remote possibility that you might be pressed up against some cute girl in front of you, but it's hot, smelly, and I just can't shake the knowledge that there is that older businessman with bad breath who has his junk pushed up against me.
My friend used to tell me to think about cabbages...absolutely nothing sexual about a cabbage.
On a train I woulld do my best to be a 'shrimp' and keep that offensive part away from the person. Pretend you are having stomach cramps. Try changing your body angle. It's harder when it shoots off in the wrong direction as it sometimes does. And of course when the train goes back and forth so you're not pressed, but gently pounded...
It's always uncomfortable when the person behind you is "in the position", either hard as a rock or otherwise.
I'm a boy.
In some case, that kind of situation happens to me, about few times a year, but I basically agree with the ppl avobe that it's dangerous to enjoy it. So I just get it off, for my "security".
But here's another thing, what's more happens is, some men breathe into my ear, in the train, and I really, really hate it.
Though there's no intention(I believe, wish).
I asked some of my friends about such experience, but they said they never had such thing.
What I can do then is only to gaze him and say "don't do it" by eyes, but it doesn't work in most cases.
To be straight, ear's my weakpoint.
But not for men!
>Scott
You're smart, it never occured to my mind, but I can't take my collar up to my ear.
Australian ppl know very much about Japan, and there's many relationship, economically, between Japan and Australia, a friend in AU told me recently, though I never imagined before.
But actually I do some work with ppl in AU, recently, because some of our subsidiries are there.
Anyway, to live in or even path through Tokyo is bad.
I believe a train can't be more crowded in any place in the World, even China!
Exactly.. and at times when you are holding on to the rail above you and your back is to the door ( because you just barely made it in before it closed) and the door against your back doesn`t open again until 3 or 4 stops down the line, like between Shibuya and Shinjuku, you can really get trapped and not be able to turn an inch in any direction at all in the mornings. People get packed in like Sardines! and there is no movement possible. In that case I think a hard on that stays in ones pants is not something that you can be prosecuted for. The train was not that hot, and the girl was definitely not smelly. And she seemed to be flexing her butt cheeks to make matters worse. I think this just proves that there are some women on the trains that are just into a cheap thrill every now and then. God bless them all :)
If you're carrying a hat, hang it on your dangly bit lest your little soldier decides to stand to attention. See? Instant hat stand. The girl feels your woody, whips around with her hand raised in slap mode, but sees your hat hanging there. Slap avoided. Red, painful face avoided. Everybody's happy.
Or, carry some granola bars or candy bars in your pocket. If you get a woody, and said young lady detects the tightening of your pants in rather unstrategic locations, turns around ready to slap you, pull out previously aforementioned delicious comestible and proceed to unwrap it. Perhaps, then, she'll think that she just felt a pocket full of chocolately goodness, rather than your stiffy.
Mmm.... but you'd better watch out, because the greasy businessman with his junk pressed up against you, horrible breath, and keeps breathing in your ear might try to steal your delicious snack, and blow your cover.
hahahaha. 4
Although I myself would probably never enjoy flexing my butt cheeks against some strange guy's stiffy friend, (unless he's Brad Pitt or something) I have heard of girls who enjoy this kind of thing...although for your own good I think you should learn "de-erectification techniques" whether it's thinking about cabbages or your grandma...whatever works for you...
Personally if someone wants to press up on my wood I got no problem with it. I guesse its pride. Hell, if she turned around I don't think she give me slaps, prolly more like a phone number. :)
At least in my mind.
I'd be pissed at a bitch who slapped me for that shit. I dunno, prolly get in trouble for something I'd regret later. Whatevers.
Now thats the best advice I`ve gotten yet... I found it hard (no pun intended) to believe that this has not happened to anyone else. I am not a pervert, but I am not a monk either.