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Just found that one of my ex girlfriend is now married... I'm happy for her but feels weird to know she is married... is that normal?

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[1] mixiユーザー 12月15日 21:23

Sure, especially if you were close. Doesn't mean you still love her or anything.

[2] mixiユーザー 12月15日 21:32

not weird at all that you feel weird if you have had a lot of girlfriends get used to it. haha I have lots of ex GFs that are married and some of them have Children as well... it is even more weird when you meet your exes new hubby and he is not as cool as you are.. good luck man

[3] mixiユーザー 12月15日 22:55

Perfectly natural. About 10 years ago, I called up my ex fiancee to let her know that my grandmother had died. I was a bit shocked to learn that she was married, even though I was also married at the time. The feeling faded pretty fast, though.

[4] mixiユーザー 12月15日 23:21

mmm, totally agree with >1 ...
this would be repeating, but if you knew her well and was in a deep relationship for a long period of time, then to think that a guy/girl is in the similar position as you...
that will indeed give you something to think about...

[5] mixiユーザー 12月16日 00:04

i think it's natural. you loved each other.
people can't control feeling but will be changed little by little when you meet with some good women.
it's good experience for you. you will grow up.

[6] mixiユーザー 12月17日 13:04

lol well two of my ex's are married 2 are engaged... LOL everyone ends up married after me... and im the one that broke up with them...

do i have issues?

[7] mixiユーザー 12月18日 16:35

The fact that you are asking whether you have issues implies you might have issues. Better ask yourself again. Or provide more info, and you probably get more helpful comments.

[8] mixiユーザー 12月19日 00:15

i'm thiking maybe u make ur girl want to be settled, and if that's the case, i think it's a good quality of u as a bf. and after u brake up w/ her, she gets married to her new beau just cuz her mind is already "there", u know.

does a girl wanting to settle down with u freak u out? thiking about y u wanted to end each of ur relationships with ur exes might give u a hint, if not the answer :)

[9] mixiユーザー 12月19日 00:29

i don't lose my feelings of desire for any of my ex's so instead of keeping in contact with them i brake off communication.

[10] mixiユーザー 12月19日 13:40

I had kind of a weird situation too. Last year I went to the wedding of the first Japanese girl I ever dated - back in high school. Almost 15 years ago, and next year she'll be coming to my wedding.

[11] mixiユーザー 12月19日 14:32

well im in good terms with most my exes... they are after all cool people. Just not ready to settle down yet, i guess. oh and im not like a "player" far from it... im just honest with people... when i dont see a future i guess tell them. I guess i havent met a woman that i can see myself with forever.

[12] mixiユーザー 12月19日 14:53

Well, if you didn't see a future with them, then that's the point, isn't it? Suppose that all your exes were still available, would you be trying to get with any of them? (I'm assuming the answer is no.) If (one of the) two people in a (potential) relationship don't see a future with each other, then I totally agree that a relationship isn't worth the time and effort of either party. I operate the same way. I say be happy that your ex(es) found people with whom they saw a future, and be happy that you're on good terms with them. I think that's just about the best case scenario for an ended relationship. Good job.

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