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Sometimes to forgive someone is not easy to do? And maybe it's easier to forgive your enemy, that to forgive your friend. (William blake)
Question:
Q: Could you forgive your best friend for stealing your husband or wife? Q: Could you forgive your husband or wife for falling in love with your best friend?
Pretty difficult i think.
For me... I don't think so. That would be very difficult to forgive. Maybe I would try, but I would always have bad feelings about it.
To forgive, you need to believe you have the right to control the other. But in reality, no one has. Maybe that's why we get together legally---marriage. But there are so many divorces which only proves the fact more.
Whether i can forgive or not..., well, that depends on how egocentric i am, i guess.
in ideal world monogamy is the silliest concept.
in this three dimensional world powerful men have created law and a concept of bound called marriage and used various forms of brainwash in order to control those who followed this law blindedly.
forgiving saves you from many problems you face everyday.