I'm sometimes cynical about love.It's not that I think love isn't a wonderful thing.Actually,love is something that I'm always thinking about and hoping for. I mean real love is hard to find.
I've been disappointed many times. I start a relationship with someone thinking that this is finally it,but something always happens. Sometimes,even though we love each other, we somehow just can't seem to get along. Our lifestyle and interests are too different,so we argue many times....
I'm single...but I'm trying to enjoy being single.
True love is great,but a halfway love brings unhappiness.
What do you think about true love ?
Did you find a lover ?
I've been disappointed many times. I start a relationship with someone thinking that this is finally it,but something always happens. Sometimes,even though we love each other, we somehow just can't seem to get along. Our lifestyle and interests are too different,so we argue many times....
I'm single...but I'm trying to enjoy being single.
True love is great,but a halfway love brings unhappiness.
What do you think about true love ?
Did you find a lover ?
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The best advice that was ever given to me, which surprisingly always comes true -- not just for me, but for EVERYONE I know -- is: DO NOT LOOK FOR (TRUE) LOVE. It'll find you when you least expect it.
IOW, don't look for it. Enjoy your family, friends and most importantly, yourself, just the way you are. When you are content with yourself and your environment, then it all of a sudden hits you -- and make your life even more vibrant.
Cheer up. :)
IOW, don't look for it. Enjoy your family, friends and most importantly, yourself, just the way you are. When you are content with yourself and your environment, then it all of a sudden hits you -- and make your life even more vibrant.
Cheer up. :)
I believe in true love, but I don't think it's
a bolt of lightning.
I think it's washing the dishes, cleaning the
toilet, putting the toilet seat down. Not relaxing
till you can relax together. It's turning off the
football so you can chat. Maybe it's plain hard
work...but it's work you enjoy.
To be a single is GOOD!!!
Can go out with anyone, enjoy every moment of ur time with friends, as much as you can!!
But having someone is good too
I always enjoy myself in any condition.. This is the secret to get happy life!
Hmm.. bout true love..
I dont have a lover, but I have someone I love. I've known him for more that a year before I fell in love to him, and we were best friends. We knew each other well and I suddenly came out that he is "the perfect one". Buthe didn't like me at first and always tried to hurt me.
I don't care what he feels to me, what he did to me... I still stood on my feeling. Still enjoyed what I felt, even though I through so many hard time and tried to forget him sometimes. Even though he's not here anymore...(he's Jap, he went back to Japan. We met in Singapore then Melbourne)
Until another year, we chatted on msn, and he admitted that he actually loved me, but he didnt want to admit it while he was still in Melbourne with me. He thought it would be useless coz it would be difficult to have a relationship between us.
Anyway..... until now I still love him (it's bee 3 years) and he loves me too. We're not lovers yet, and we'll see what will happen in the future. I believe in destiny.. If he's really the one for me, we'll get together. If not, this might be the best for us too.
(hey.. it doesnt mean I can date another guy at this time
)
;) As I told you, I enjoy every situation in my life!
Can go out with anyone, enjoy every moment of ur time with friends, as much as you can!!
But having someone is good too
I always enjoy myself in any condition.. This is the secret to get happy life!
Hmm.. bout true love..
I dont have a lover, but I have someone I love. I've known him for more that a year before I fell in love to him, and we were best friends. We knew each other well and I suddenly came out that he is "the perfect one". Buthe didn't like me at first and always tried to hurt me.
I don't care what he feels to me, what he did to me... I still stood on my feeling. Still enjoyed what I felt, even though I through so many hard time and tried to forget him sometimes. Even though he's not here anymore...(he's Jap, he went back to Japan. We met in Singapore then Melbourne)
Until another year, we chatted on msn, and he admitted that he actually loved me, but he didnt want to admit it while he was still in Melbourne with me. He thought it would be useless coz it would be difficult to have a relationship between us.
Anyway..... until now I still love him (it's bee 3 years) and he loves me too. We're not lovers yet, and we'll see what will happen in the future. I believe in destiny.. If he's really the one for me, we'll get together. If not, this might be the best for us too.
(hey.. it doesnt mean I can date another guy at this time
)
;) As I told you, I enjoy every situation in my life!
a heavy question. Is there anything like true love? Does love need any adjective? Love is love and that's enough, isn't it?
Then what is love? Should it be given from others or should it happen inside ourselves first? If the latter happens, we may not need love from others and be living in a loving society because everyone is loving, not needing love from others.
Then what is love? Should it be given from others or should it happen inside ourselves first? If the latter happens, we may not need love from others and be living in a loving society because everyone is loving, not needing love from others.
if you are still 100% content and comfortable when the infatuation wears off and you continue to be so... then thats probably true love.
and like skindeep says ... handling your partners BS and visa versa...
nobody is perfect and if you can accept that in your partner and not need to spend your energy trying to change them, then thats also probably true love.
but who knows what it really is, because it has to be different for each of us.. we all have different priorities...
TWENTY TWO needs pyramids... but the rest of us seem quite content with comfortable silences, warm hugs and unconditional acceptance. :D
and like skindeep says ... handling your partners BS and visa versa...
nobody is perfect and if you can accept that in your partner and not need to spend your energy trying to change them, then thats also probably true love.
but who knows what it really is, because it has to be different for each of us.. we all have different priorities...
TWENTY TWO needs pyramids... but the rest of us seem quite content with comfortable silences, warm hugs and unconditional acceptance. :D
TWENTY TWO.... values pyramids... cant say i have heard of those.
i know the pyramids in egypt... one of the wonders of the world...
and i have read about pyramid schemes and MLM and how they tend to end in disaster for ppl who join up
oh, yeah and pyramid power.
of course i know about values. my question is, do you?
i find it hilarious that someone who can take an instant dislike to someone who posts 3 lines on some internet discussion can actually talk about values...
i think you should sort out your rage issues before you talk about values and pointy-arse buildings
:D
i know the pyramids in egypt... one of the wonders of the world...
and i have read about pyramid schemes and MLM and how they tend to end in disaster for ppl who join up
oh, yeah and pyramid power.
of course i know about values. my question is, do you?
i find it hilarious that someone who can take an instant dislike to someone who posts 3 lines on some internet discussion can actually talk about values...
i think you should sort out your rage issues before you talk about values and pointy-arse buildings
:D
True love does not exist! People change all the time. Destiny is what you make of it. Yes, I think there is a "soul mate" out there, as in ppl that you get on really well and have great chemistry. But I don't think that is limited for one and only person.
By: a guy that almost got married by age 21 and realized what a great mistake that would have been
By: a guy that almost got married by age 21 and realized what a great mistake that would have been
ちゃあこ.. i wouldnt worry about him so much, he is just some lonely unhappy guy using the anonymous internet to vent his anger.
i got some mysterious arse message from him this morning, what the hell he is on about, i have no idea, but the guy loves to be angry, that one thing is obvious.
but since we have no idea who he is in real life, dont let him spoil your day... instead savour your own happy life.
it works for me everytime.
you could also have fun winding him up and settig him off, thats also good for a bit of a laugh. :D
i got some mysterious arse message from him this morning, what the hell he is on about, i have no idea, but the guy loves to be angry, that one thing is obvious.
but since we have no idea who he is in real life, dont let him spoil your day... instead savour your own happy life.
it works for me everytime.
you could also have fun winding him up and settig him off, thats also good for a bit of a laugh. :D
About love.
I believe in true love. And I believe that you can find it if you are open to seeing it. The problem is that too many books, songs and movies try to teach us about unrealistic stories of love that are not what love is really about.
I believe that true love is something that is hard to do. It takes time and patience. You can see past surface things and see the connection inside. The way someone makes you feel when you are with them. That certain comfortable feeling that no one else can give you. And the sense that you are no longer alone in the world.
But love is also hard. Resolving differences, being patient and sticking to it even when things are difficult. But I think if you can do that, in the end, love can become true and lasting.
Sounds maybe romantic. But I've seen it, and been lucky enough to have it once before. Don't close yourself to it or give up on finding it. It is there is wish it to be. Just open yourself to finding someone.
I believe in true love. And I believe that you can find it if you are open to seeing it. The problem is that too many books, songs and movies try to teach us about unrealistic stories of love that are not what love is really about.
I believe that true love is something that is hard to do. It takes time and patience. You can see past surface things and see the connection inside. The way someone makes you feel when you are with them. That certain comfortable feeling that no one else can give you. And the sense that you are no longer alone in the world.
But love is also hard. Resolving differences, being patient and sticking to it even when things are difficult. But I think if you can do that, in the end, love can become true and lasting.
Sounds maybe romantic. But I've seen it, and been lucky enough to have it once before. Don't close yourself to it or give up on finding it. It is there is wish it to be. Just open yourself to finding someone.
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