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I am half-Japanese (in thinking). I can understand why foreigners want to have Japanese friends, (because it will help with their lives in Japan), but why Japanese are so despearate to have non-Japanese friends? Especially Japanese girls are so eager to find non-Japanese boyfriends? I think Japanese girls have a stereotype of non-Japanese, maybe some misunderstanding...

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[1] mixiユーザー 11月26日 02:26

i think the reason for the japanese women is that japanese men dont treat women with respect. I have been in a relationship with more than one japanese guy and its the first time anyone ever cheated on me or abused me. my friend is married to a japanese guy and he tells her ' you are a women, you need to clean, take care of the baby, and have dinner ready for me when i get home and make my breakfast and lunch everyday" and she is not allowed to speak when he is speaking to another man. lets face it. most japanese guys are usually assholes. they either cheat, control or abuse and most japanese women refuse to see that. the ones that do see it realize a relationship with a foreigner might be better for them. and i have personally heard this from alot of them myself so its not something i'm just making up

[6] mixiユーザー 11月27日 01:49

but there are various types of foreigners as well. Not all Japanese guys are bad, just like not all foreigners guys are good.
Is it because Japanese women hear many stories of married couples (with Japanese men), but onlya few with foreigners, and the stories they heard from married-to-foreigners are only good examples?
Also, Japanese women don't usually work after getting married, so it's reasonable that women stay home and take care of the kids and housework, otherwise, what should she do?

[7] mixiユーザー 11月29日 18:37

i think the only reason japanese women dont work is because they are expected not to. I often hear them complain that they wish they could work but are only doing what is expected of them as a wife and mother

and its very true not all foreigner guys are good just as not all japanese guys are bad. but in my experience 3/5 japanese guys treat women badly.

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