One young lady came to my medical clinic. Her mother came together, and they came into my examination room. The young lady was nineteen years old, and she was a college student.
She had a high fever and a cough. I said,“It is better that you are put on a drip of antibiotics.” Then she shouted,“I hate to be put on a drip!” She was a college student!
And then her mother said,“Her appetite is now good, and so a drip is not necessary.” Is this mother a doctor? I said,“It is a drip of antibiotics, not for nutrition”
This young lady is a child, and her mother has permitted that her daughter is wayward. It's said that children grow, and they always watch the back of their parents.
Japanese parents tend to take care of their children excessively. All members of a family are the labor force in a rice crop. It's a Japanese tradition, and maybe it's a same thing in other Asian countries.
Of course now many Japanese people live in cities, and they have each families. But I think that many Japanese people even now have the tradition of a rice crop in their mind, that is, parents and children depend on each other.
It's not so bad thing, but children will be adults someday, and parents should not disturb their children's growth.