ここでは、MLでいただいたQ/A BOXの無記名投稿に、Life Group（聖書の勉強会）で出し合った考えを載せていきますね！
We'd like to answer anonymous postings we got at ML. We thought at LG(bible study) and gathered opinions.
Q. 一家団欒が少ないので、もっと夫婦の時間
を充実したい！
How to have were Quality Time between husband & wife?
A. その人の状況、例えば
It depends on situation. for example...
・ご主人のお仕事が超多忙 husband is pressed by business & full a schedule.
・ママさんが子育てに疲れ果ててる wife is hectic & exhausted by rasing children.
・子供は何人？何歳？ How many children do you have? & How old?
その度合いによって、様々だとは思います。が、多かれ少なかれ、子供を持つとどの家庭にも当てはまる、Good Qestionですよね。
Every couple is in varying degrees. but every couple with children has more or less this probrem. Good Question!
☆先ず、ご夫婦でよく話し合うべきですよね。案外、奥さんが「旦那さんはお仕事が忙しい時期だし、私や子供のことなんて、2の次なんだわ・・・」
と思っていても、ご主人の方も「奥さんは子供のことでいっぱいいっぱいで、自分の事をかまってくれなくなって寂しい・・・」と思い違いがあったりしますよね。
At first, you should provide for face-to-face meetings between husband and wife.
Wife tend to think that my husband is very busy and leaves me & children on a back-burner.
And also husband tend to think that my wife is hectic & exhausted by rasing children, please pay attention to me!
This misconceptions aren't good for each other!
☆そして、やはり、特に奥さん側が、意識してご主人を優先順位No.1に置くべきでしょう。
子供はやがて巣立っていく存在で、子供依存症になってはいけないんです。
自分が子供だった頃を思い出すとよく解るのですが、両親の不仲は子供にとって大きなショックですよね。
子供との時間ばかりを優先させていると、ご主人の心が、取り返しのつかないところへ行ってしまうかも知れません。
Then, after all, you should place top priority on your husband.
Children are going to setting out on their own, and mother shouldn't depend on their children.
Please remember your childhood memory! Children are really shocked by parents rift, right?
If you place top priority on your children, husband's heart may go somewhere, and it may be difficult to recover.
☆定期的に、友人や親族に子供を預けて、ご夫婦だけの時間を持つ計画を立ててみてはいかがですか？
子供が複数の場合は、家に来てもらうとか。
あるママさんは、月1回夫婦だけで映画を見に行くそうですよ。二人のお子さんは、ばあばに預けて。素敵でしょ？
NONーSEXという問題も、夫婦2人だけの時間を持つことでついてくるでしょう。
Why don't you plan Quality Time regularly?
Why not leave your children in someone's care, or ask someone to come and take care of your children?
A mom go to a movie with her husband once a month, leaving their children in grandma's care. it's so nice, isn't it?
Sexless problem will disappear with this time.
参考になりました？ご意見ご感想、もらえたら嬉しいです。
We hope you find it informative. We would like to hear from you!
We'd like to answer anonymous postings we got at ML. We thought at LG(bible study) and gathered opinions.
Q. 一家団欒が少ないので、もっと夫婦の時間
を充実したい！ How to have were Quality Time between husband & wife?
A. その人の状況、例えば
It depends on situation. for example...
・ご主人のお仕事が超多忙 husband is pressed by business & full a schedule.
・ママさんが子育てに疲れ果ててる wife is hectic & exhausted by rasing children.
・子供は何人？何歳？ How many children do you have? & How old?
その度合いによって、様々だとは思います。が、多かれ少なかれ、子供を持つとどの家庭にも当てはまる、Good Qestionですよね。
Every couple is in varying degrees. but every couple with children has more or less this probrem. Good Question!
☆先ず、ご夫婦でよく話し合うべきですよね。案外、奥さんが「旦那さんはお仕事が忙しい時期だし、私や子供のことなんて、2の次なんだわ・・・」
と思っていても、ご主人の方も「奥さんは子供のことでいっぱいいっぱいで、自分の事をかまってくれなくなって寂しい・・・」と思い違いがあったりしますよね。
At first, you should provide for face-to-face meetings between husband and wife.
Wife tend to think that my husband is very busy and leaves me & children on a back-burner.
And also husband tend to think that my wife is hectic & exhausted by rasing children, please pay attention to me!
This misconceptions aren't good for each other!
☆そして、やはり、特に奥さん側が、意識してご主人を優先順位No.1に置くべきでしょう。
子供はやがて巣立っていく存在で、子供依存症になってはいけないんです。
自分が子供だった頃を思い出すとよく解るのですが、両親の不仲は子供にとって大きなショックですよね。
子供との時間ばかりを優先させていると、ご主人の心が、取り返しのつかないところへ行ってしまうかも知れません。
Then, after all, you should place top priority on your husband.
Children are going to setting out on their own, and mother shouldn't depend on their children.
Please remember your childhood memory! Children are really shocked by parents rift, right?
If you place top priority on your children, husband's heart may go somewhere, and it may be difficult to recover.
☆定期的に、友人や親族に子供を預けて、ご夫婦だけの時間を持つ計画を立ててみてはいかがですか？
子供が複数の場合は、家に来てもらうとか。
あるママさんは、月1回夫婦だけで映画を見に行くそうですよ。二人のお子さんは、ばあばに預けて。素敵でしょ？
NONーSEXという問題も、夫婦2人だけの時間を持つことでついてくるでしょう。
Why don't you plan Quality Time regularly?
Why not leave your children in someone's care, or ask someone to come and take care of your children?
A mom go to a movie with her husband once a month, leaving their children in grandma's care. it's so nice, isn't it?
Sexless problem will disappear with this time.
参考になりました？ご意見ご感想、もらえたら嬉しいです。
We hope you find it informative. We would like to hear from you!
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