開催終了10月4日ギリホリ英会話
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2008年10月01日 04:50 更新
今週も土曜日に英会話を開催します。
【開催時間】15：00〜17：00
【開催場所】アルバーニー通り上にあるティムホートン（ビュートとサーローの間）
皆さんの参加お待ちしてます。
「初めての方へ」
このギリホリ英会話はメンバー皆で集まって英語でコミュニケーションをとるのが目的です。特に英会話のレベルなどは関係なく、英語を話す機会がもっと欲しいな〜とか、英語を話すのがすきという人はどんどん参加して下さい。
集合場所は基本的にコーヒーショップですので、学校の授業のように硬いものではなく、気軽に何でも話せるような雰囲気ですので、とにかく皆で楽しんでやっていきます。
流れとしては最初の45〜60分でお互い自己紹介をし、残りの60〜75分で用意されたトピックについて話し合う、といった感じです。
もし興味がある人は是非気軽に参加してください。ちなみに参加費などはなしで、コーヒーを飲みたい人は、コーヒーを自分で購入するのにお金がかかる程度です。
英会話の後にも、定期的に食事にいったり、ビリヤードしに行ったりと活動してます。皆で楽しみましょう！！
【連絡先】
ヒデカナックス携帯： 778-231-4855
ヒデカナックスメールアドレス：hidecanucks@gmail.com
※ 特に参加、不参加の電話連絡はいりません。
【開催時間】15：00〜17：00
【開催場所】アルバーニー通り上にあるティムホートン（ビュートとサーローの間）
皆さんの参加お待ちしてます。
「初めての方へ」
このギリホリ英会話はメンバー皆で集まって英語でコミュニケーションをとるのが目的です。特に英会話のレベルなどは関係なく、英語を話す機会がもっと欲しいな〜とか、英語を話すのがすきという人はどんどん参加して下さい。
集合場所は基本的にコーヒーショップですので、学校の授業のように硬いものではなく、気軽に何でも話せるような雰囲気ですので、とにかく皆で楽しんでやっていきます。
流れとしては最初の45〜60分でお互い自己紹介をし、残りの60〜75分で用意されたトピックについて話し合う、といった感じです。
もし興味がある人は是非気軽に参加してください。ちなみに参加費などはなしで、コーヒーを飲みたい人は、コーヒーを自分で購入するのにお金がかかる程度です。
英会話の後にも、定期的に食事にいったり、ビリヤードしに行ったりと活動してます。皆で楽しみましょう！！
【連絡先】
ヒデカナックス携帯： 778-231-4855
ヒデカナックスメールアドレス：hidecanucks@gmail.com
※ 特に参加、不参加の電話連絡はいりません。
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2008年10月04日 00:07
今週のトピックです。
Can Women Forgive Cheating Men?
Although every woman I've asked made it clear that she could never take a cheater back (they even gave me that whole "once a cheater..." spiel), it seems that actions speak much louder than words. You guys are getting out of jail for free all too often.
More often than not, women tend to forgive cheating boyfriends and husbands. The reasons why tend to vary, and even the degree of "forgiveness" tends to vary. But before we delve into what these reasons are, allow me to provide a loose definition of what cheating is for the sake of clarity.
Although many people would quickly argue that cybersex and close friendships with the opposite sex constitute cheating, what I'm referring to in this article is sexual contact of any kind. From kissing and dry humping to oral sex and actual penetration, all things physically sexual count as acts of betrayal.
The exchange of bodily fluids from saliva to semen means that you've been getting down and dirty with another woman and none of this "I was in a different zip code so it doesn't count" crud is going to fly. Cheating is cheating. There's an ongoing debate as to which kind of cheating is worse, although I am of the opinion that all cheating is unforgivable. But most women tend to separate cheating into degrees.
For instance, many women would be more willing to forgive a cheater who had a moment of weakness and engaged in a one-night stand than a significant other who had been pursuing another secret relationship on the side. I guess the lack of emotional attachment of the former makes it somewhat easier to deal with than discovering that a man has been feeding us straight-out lies throughout the relationship.
Historically speaking, women used to forgive their husbands' cheating ways more frequently for reasons other than love -- many would even turn the other cheek. To start, wives were highly respected and thus didn't normally engage in lustful, raw, animalistic sex, at least that's the way their husbands saw it -- so that's what mistresses were for.
Second, because they were basically having sex for procreation (see above), wives weren't big fans of the act of sex. As well, leaving their husbands "simply" for cheating would leave them disgraced (especially since it was quietly acceptable for men to cheat) and because they were "tainted" and had "baggage," marrying for a second time would be difficult if not impossible.
And because men were usually the sole breadwinners of a household, divorcing their husbands was virtually unheard of. Nowadays things are different... but perhaps not that different in that women still take their men back.
In short, she may say that she forgives you, but in reality you've given her ammunition to use against you. And in the end, your relationship will likely self-destruct. But behold, sometimes when women say that they forgive, they do actually mean it. But if she exhibits any of the aforementioned behavior, her forgiveness comes with strings attached.
But it's all relative. For many women, everything depends on who you've cheated with, what she meant to you, how many people know, whether you told her or she found out... there are many things to consider. But ultimately, cheating is not cool, for lack of a better word.
Personally speaking, if my significant other cheated on me, my love would turn to hatred instantly. I just cannot tolerate betrayal of any kind and even if I wanted to forgive him, I couldn't. That's just the kind of person I am. But hey, evidently many women don't feel the way I do. Just ask Hillary and Kathie Lee, not to mention Tammy Wynette.
2008年10月04日 00:07
Although cheating has dropped significantly, it isn't due to our underlying emphasis on the value of relationships, or the coveted commandment; it's likely due to the spread of AIDS. Disease has changed the tune that most cheaters were singing, according to Dr. Tom Smith of the National Opinion Research Center.
And besides disease, I can't tell you how many guys I've met that cheated on their women only to be forgiven and in turn, become extremely paranoid that their women would at some point give them the same bitter pill to swallow. Ultimately, they became so engrossed in delusions of their women's infidelities that the relationship came to a screeching halt.
I tell everyone the same thing when it comes to their relationship: Before you decide to do anything, put yourself in the other person's shoes and think to yourself, "if she did this to me, would I be okay with it?" And if you're unable to see the other person's side, then imagine this: Everything you've ever done to your partner (cheat, flirt, deceive), she has probably done to you. Now how you like them apples?
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